Why did everybody envy each other? The majority do not know in oneself well but instead of relevant fields, it is not self-confident to be inclined to, so is apt to envy others. Envy it is perhaps normal, but if someone gives up one's own confidence and pursues because of envy right to be others', that is stupid. Envy that only because we hope to involve the field, but not familiar with. So an important one is knowing well, go to master. And one's own ability have no direct concerning. Psytopic view: Perhaps use " offer " Substitute " envy each other " Will be more suitable, this is the mankind, to the unknown and frightened instinct. " everybody envies each other, almost can have no people with the exception " ,This sentence is really like the truth. Its reason in my view, may be uncomplicated too, that is: The majority do not know in oneself well but instead of relevant fields, it is not self-confident to be inclined to, so is apt to envy others. Say those who are in the game do not see as clearly as they should the spectator sees most clearly, but judge who what standard closer to the truth is on earth? In actual life, as personal heart feels and when the external world appraise and present differently, which is really correct? If apply the explanation of that reason mechanically, perhaps can provide an answer. For example, get rid of the modest factor, Jordan will not think either generally that look like the king of the statue basketball oneself. Because he grasped making a comprehensive study and a thorough master of after knowing well in much technology coming from the basic training, he has possessed that kind of drive, that kind of confidence, he himself does not feel special; But fans of Jordan that a lot of are young " The spirit " , " king " ,etc. name add it last he,whose name is the crazy envy by he, why is it? Because they are interested in Jordan at first ' Change Jordan into a field related to oneself) ,They understand or can perfect technology drive his psychology of him to master him secondly ' Not familiar with Jordan's extraordinarily brave real intension) ,So envy. You unable to imagine one interested in to soccer person that even basketball match was not watch can envy Jordan only, you unable to imagine or drive worse than Jordan how much James envy Jordan as Jordan fan ' Just respect at the most) . Perhaps the example around is more lifelike. You know how to reset, you understand some basic computers maintain, but not much else, you will think one's own computer level is very high by oneself? No, feel general at the most. Have computer operate to computer person known well to maintain seem, your computer technology is very strong, but apt to let people envy. Same you are unable to imagine the boss of an electronic city will envy you because you understand some basically safeguard knowledge, he will only think you are almost only a beginner too. Then, how on earth is your computer level? In fact as to standard of each subjective experience, everybody's judgements all have no fault. Example know, it can lifts to be strong a bit, but the explanation may explain why we envy perfectly frequently. The majority do not know in oneself well but instead of relevant fields, it is not self-confident to be inclined to, so is apt to envy others. For knowing this field quite well, you will find the mood envied has often disappeared too, the substitute is a kind of calmness. So, envy it is perhaps normal, but if someone gives up one's own confidence and pursues because of envy right to be others', that is stupid. Envy that only because we hope to involve the field, but not familiar with. So an important one is knowing well, go to master. And one's own ability have no direct concerning. If you like, go, try, go, familiar with, that complex that envy can give up quickly perhaps. If thought one's own knowing well was one's own incapability, gave up the experience giving up being familiar with hard, that may really have proved to one's own wrong supposition originally finally. For example love, temporarily also single friend is not the love to abandon them, just they have still not enough to be familiar with to love, or the true opportunity has not arrived, have nothing to do with one's own ability to love, the course that just need time and is familiar with. So happy lover around, may go to envy, totally unnecessary to feel self-humiliation something even while being loud. And a few hardly goes to envy the person with normal others' intelligence, there are two kinds of situations, first, very self-confident, even very arrogant while having; Another kind watch light people very a lot of thing, everything is real " not mattering " . These two kinds of persons are very rare. Such as Nietzsche such as the village.