The news is that a radio station has already started playing
Christmas music, the idea being that people need a lift from all the
woeful tidings of the season. Excuse me, but what happened to
Thanksgiving?
I get a lift from giving thanks, especially when times are hard and the distance from where I am to "being lifted" is greater.
Gratitude is, in fact, one of the big spiritual practices of the
world's religions. Give thanks, they say. Giving thanks is important,
they say. It's important because it is uplifting. People need a lift
from all the woeful tidings of the season, so let us undertake the
spiritual practice of giving thanks.
Imagine all the years when harvests were thin, and survival through the
winter was a dicey prospect. What did our foreparents do? They
worried, of course, but also they gave thanks. And why not? The world
is full of many wonders. Life is amazing. Every day I wake up, it's
time to give thanks. And throughout the day there are many moments to
be grateful. Grateful for the smile of the waitress at the coffee
shop. Grateful for the greeting of my co-worker. Grateful for the
opportunity to make what I can of another day. Letting gratitude run
through my day, pretty soon I realize I am in love with life, indeed,
that I am happy, that I am in awe of nature and human invention, and so
much more. And yes, my 401(k) is toast.
There are so many bad things that happen, things for which gratitude is
really not the appropriate response. But then, through the rage and
disappointment, beyond the tears, it turns out there is something, not
the central event, but something around the edges, there is something
for which to be thankful. Those little crumbs of gratitude from around
big awful events are important. They make a trail that can lead us
from bitterness to forgiveness, from despair to renewed hope, a trail
of crumbs through the dark places that can take us back out again.
So let us not go quite yet to the forgettable and commercial uplift of
Christmas songs on the radio. Let's take time for Thanksgiving first,
and tune up our spiritual practice of gratitude. It's something within and beyond
ourselves that will deliver the goods as we face these hard times. It's good to start with giving thanks.
Parish minister at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Manchester since 2001. See our website: www.uumanchester.org