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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://cs.newhampshire.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Salem Observer : Salem, Family</title><link>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Salem/Family/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: Salem, Family</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 (Build: 60809.935)</generator><item><title>Salem dirty house trial begins</title><link>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/2008/10/08/Salem-dirty-house-trial-begins.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 20:46:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">7b375189-dcc7-4af7-b4d3-2fc751a0220e:11488</guid><dc:creator>Salem Editor</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/comments/11488.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/commentrss.aspx?PostID=11488</wfw:commentRss><description>BY &lt;a href="mailto:jmcdowell@yourneighborhoodnews.com" target="_blank"&gt;JENN McDOWELL&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The trial for Michael
and Maureen Bell, accused
of housing their five children
in an uninhabitable home, will
begin on Wednesday, Oct. 15, in
Salem District Court.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Bells have been charged
with five counts each of endangering
the welfare of a child for
keeping their children in the 31
Twinbrook Ave. home, which
was found to be ridden with
health code violations.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They&amp;rsquo;ve been free on personal
recognizance bail since their
arraignments, and their children,
ages 2 through 9, have been staying
with relatives.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Bells were renting the splitlevel
home for $2,000 a month for
just under two years when their
2-year-old daughter was found
wandering naked down Oakridge
Avenue, which intersects with
Twinbrook Avenue.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;An Oakridge Avenue resident
found the little girl on the evening
of July 4 and called police,
who returned her to her parents,
Michael and Maureen Bell, ages
33 and 32 respectively.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When police arrived, the Bells
were watching three of their own
children &amp;ndash; two of them, ages 5
and 9, were not home at the time
&amp;ndash; and three of a relative&amp;rsquo;s children.
The Bells were allegedly not
sure how many children were
in their home, and had not seen
their 2-year-old leave.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Police began investigating
when they saw the condition
of the home, reporting seeing
spoiled food throughout the
home, smelling a nauseating
odor of food and trash, and finding
soiled diapers strewn on the
floor.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Police also reported seeing
raw sewage in the sink and toilet
on the second level, and ants in
the kitchen.
Old appliances and trash
were strewn across the yard.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;On July 7, Salem health inspector
Brian Lockard deemed the home uninhabitable after
investigating with police and
representatives from the state&amp;rsquo;s
Division of Youth and Family
Services.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Salem health officials had
already been to the house three
times because of litter in the yard
while the Bells were renting it,
but had not been inside.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Lockard said at the time of his
investigation it looked as though
the house had gone neglected for
more than a year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Salem police brought charges
against the Bells, who turned
themselves in on July 10.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kim Poirier of Peterborough,
owner of the home, said the Bells
always paid their rent on time,
and although she&amp;rsquo;d received calls
from Lockard about the yard&amp;rsquo;s
condition, the Bells always assured
her the house was being
properly maintained.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Poirier and her husband, Dan
Poirier, have been working to
clean up the home. In August,
Lockard deemed the home livable
again.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cs.newhampshire.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=11488" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Salem/default.aspx">Salem</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Kids+_2600_amp_3B00_+Family/default.aspx">Kids &amp;amp; Family</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/crime/default.aspx">crime</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Police/default.aspx">Police</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Family/default.aspx">Family</category></item><item><title>Salem health inspector has seen many unsanitary homes</title><link>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/2008/07/30/Salem-health-inspector-has-seen-many-unsanitary-homes.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 18:38:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">7b375189-dcc7-4af7-b4d3-2fc751a0220e:10318</guid><dc:creator>Salem Editor</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/comments/10318.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/commentrss.aspx?PostID=10318</wfw:commentRss><description>BY &lt;a href="mailto:perkins.derrick@comcast.net" target="_blank"&gt;DERRICK PERKINS&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Declaring the split-level
home on Twinbrook Avenue
in Salem unfit for human habitation
is nothing new to veteran
health inspector Brian Lockard,
who has seen residences as bad
or worse in both New Hampshire
and Massachusetts.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s hard to put a number on
it. Over the past year or so I&amp;rsquo;ve
been to several homes similar
to this,&amp;rdquo; said Lockard, who has
more than 20 years of experience
in public health. &amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m sure like every
community out there; there&amp;rsquo;s
others out there. There&amp;rsquo;s many
more out there. This is an issue
for every community.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Over the past few years, Lockard
has investigated a number of
homes and apartments in Salem
found to have been left in squalid
or unsanitary conditions. In
one case, an individual walked
around collecting discarded
trash from the barrels neighbors
brought out to the curb on garbage
day. In another, Lockard
found a woman who had been
hoarding pets, even keeping the
animals in her home after they
had died.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Earlier this month, he declared
the house at 31 Twinbrook
Ave. unfit for human habitation
after police discovered unsanitary
conditions inside while returning
the residents&amp;rsquo; missing 2-
year-old daughter. Human ***
and dirty diapers were found
on the carpeting throughout the
house along with ants, flies and
rotten food.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s tough to rank. I think it
was pretty unsanitary. Deplorable
conditions, especially considering
the five young children
who lived there,&amp;rdquo; Lockard said.
&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s not the worse I&amp;rsquo;ve seen.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The residents &amp;ndash; Michael and
Maureen Bell &amp;ndash; turned themselves
in to police after authorities
charged them with five counts
each of endangering the welfare
of a child. The couple faces up to
a year in jail or $1,200 in fines.
Their arraignment is scheduled
for Aug. 4.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Lockard became Salem&amp;rsquo;s
health inspector six years ago
after spending the previous 15
years handling the same job for
the town of Burlington, Mass.,
where he found his share of
squalid or unsanitary residences
before crossing the state line.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;I investigated one situation
with an elderly man in his 80s
who was ill with cancer, who
didn&amp;rsquo;t know it at the time,&amp;rdquo; Lockard
said. &amp;ldquo;The plumbing wasn&amp;rsquo;t
working, but he was still using
the bathroom facilities. Horrendous
conditions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Many of his cases involved
hoarding &amp;ndash; where individuals
refuse to throw away any of
their possessions or who collect
clutter in their homes &amp;ndash; a condition
more common among the
elderly.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;What we&amp;rsquo;re dealing with is a
type of mental health issue. The
research is a subset of obsessive-compulsive
disorder. The tendencies
are there,&amp;rdquo; said Rachel
Lakin, program administrator for
the New Hampshire Adult Protective
Service. &amp;ldquo;We don&amp;rsquo;t see the
individual until later when they
start to experience some kind of
difficulty. It happens, and when
it&amp;rsquo;s not treated, it just kind of goes
on. When we get to them, its been
an issue for a long time.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;According to Lakin, over the
past fiscal year, the number of
cases involving &amp;ldquo;self-neglect&amp;rdquo;
have risen by 141. The self-neglect
Lakin usually finds can
range from hoarding animals to
collecting meals-on-wheels containers,
creating health and public
safety hazards.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s an area that comes to
our attention more and more,
and our reports are up in the
category of self-neglect over last
year,&amp;rdquo; Lakin said. &amp;ldquo;Normally by
the time they get to our attention
they&amp;rsquo;re over the age of 60. We
don&amp;rsquo;t have clearcut research on
why that is, but what we think
happens is people manage pretty
well, and then they get some
kind of illness or incapacity and
are brought to our attention.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Lakin&amp;rsquo;s program takes a multidisciplinary
approach while
working with those living in self-neglect
in cooperation with mental
health services. Just cleaning
up the conditions doesn&amp;rsquo;t work,
Lakin said, because a week or
two later clutter begins cropping
up again.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;What we try to do is work
together with the mental health
agencies and landlords in trying
to see exactly what is going on.
If the individual is in their own
home and not impacting anyone
else, we&amp;rsquo;ll work with them in
small ways,&amp;rdquo; she said. &amp;ldquo;It takes a
lot of people and a lot of resources
and a lot of time to help.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;While Lakin deals most often
with the elderly &amp;ndash; 107 of the new
cases over the last fiscal year involved
individuals over the age
of 60 &amp;ndash; young people can also
exhibit the OCD-like symptoms
associated with hoarding.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Self-neglect commonly involves
an individual living alone
without much contact with
relatives or friends, according to
Lockard.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;Many times the person is
working or has a job, but the
living conditions can be very
unsanitary or unhealthy,&amp;rdquo; he
said. &amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s a situation where you
try to correct the problems, but
also steer the people in the direction
where they need some assistance.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s not something that most
people are aware of,&amp;rdquo; Lakin said.
&amp;ldquo;We are, because we see it quite
a bit and we see it throughout
the state.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cs.newhampshire.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=10318" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Salem/default.aspx">Salem</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Family/default.aspx">Family</category></item><item><title>Family receives help </title><link>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/2007/12/12/Family-receives-help-.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 20:25:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">7b375189-dcc7-4af7-b4d3-2fc751a0220e:6127</guid><dc:creator>Salem Editor</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/comments/6127.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/commentrss.aspx?PostID=6127</wfw:commentRss><description>
&lt;p&gt;By Pam Chaplowe-ruth&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;With hopeful weariness, Sue said, &amp;ldquo;I hope some day to be in a better position, where I can pay it forward.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A quiet, grateful mother of two, Sue and her children are one of the many recipients of Salem&amp;rsquo;s Christmas Fund. As the holiday season roars on full tilt, it is community assistance programs like this that help families maintain some semblance of the gift-giving ritual. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sue doesn&amp;rsquo;t know exactly who donates to the Christmas Fund. She&amp;rsquo;s only familiar with her family&amp;rsquo;s need for help, the process of requesting assistance and the welcome rush of relief as her appointed &amp;ldquo;shopping&amp;rdquo; time is arranged. When she actually sees the bounty of donated new items &amp;ndash; toys, crafts, gift cards &amp;ndash; all arranged neatly by recommended age group of the recipient, Sue begins to feel the first stirrings of excitement and joy of the holiday season. Her own gift? The relief that she feels being able to provide presents and full stockings for her children on Christmas morning, a treasure that all parents can recognize and appreciate. That is gift enough.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Aside from the quiet manner in which families like Sue&amp;rsquo;s are being assisted, these neighbors are part of the fabric of life seen every day in the community. Hardworking parents with similar circumstances of divorce, medical issues, compounding costs of living, they are often surviving barely within their means. A holiday season is especially difficult for those with children to find means to provide extras in the way of gifts and festive meals. Watching three minutes of commercial air time can make even the most stalwart optimist crumble with despair.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sue is an example of many single mothers who struggle between providing for their children and encouraging them in various activities and school. The gentle art of molding moral and kind human beings makes a very full day for this mom. Her 16-year-old, along with being a typical teenager with all the emotional exercise that entails, also suffers a medical condition that demands Sue&amp;rsquo;s additional time and attention. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Her lively 10-year-old, in that zone between child and young adult, has places to go and things to do on a daily basis while still needing appropriate supervision. How to keep everyone fed, housed, safe, sane and happy?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;Sometimes I have to decide whether to put the heat on in the car when we&amp;rsquo;re driving because it uses more gas if I do,&amp;rdquo; Sue said. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s just one of her methods of allocating what they have with what they need. Late at night, when she is supposed to be sleeping is when most of her worries come unbidden. How to have one child somewhere, when the other needs to be picked up at the same time? How to make sure she&amp;rsquo;s home when her 16-year-old gets out of school so she can keep tabs on his medical issues? Will she need to wake her 10-year-old, wrapped in pajamas to sit in a cold car while she drives to pick up the older sibling from a part-time job? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Such is the reality when extended family lives out of the state and mom is the foundation, mortar and brick of the family unit. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But Sue said things are looking up. When she heads to the warehouse to pick out gifts for her children from the carefully sorted items she will look past the now and see herself someday donating to this very same organization, helping another parent very much like herself. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m kind of old to believe in Santa Claus &amp;hellip; but I guess in a way, right now I do,&amp;rdquo; she said &lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cs.newhampshire.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=6127" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Salem/default.aspx">Salem</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Merrimack+Valley/default.aspx">Merrimack Valley</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Christmas/default.aspx">Christmas</category><category domain="http://cs.newhampshire.com/blogs/salem_observer/archive/tags/Family/default.aspx">Family</category></item></channel></rss>