BY
JENN McDOWELL
In his senior year playing
for the Pelham High
School Pythons, running
back Robby Maille
rushed for about 1,500 yards,
said athletic director and
Maille’s coach, Tim Powers.
He also scored more than
20 touchdowns that year, two
stats that are both rare for
high school football running
backs and telling of the drive
Maille had, both on the field
and in his life.
“His competitive nature
personified him. He always
wanted to win, and he would
do whatever it takes to win,”
Powers said.
Maille died at Massachusetts
General Hospital on
Wednesday, Aug. 13, after
fighting for his life for several
days. He was the son of
Michael and Janet Maille of
Pelham.
He was 21 years old, about
to enter his senior year at Merrimack
College in North Andover,
Mass., and was looking
forward to a bright future.
“He was my best friend,
and we had a lot of good times
together,” said Jon “Biggie”
Gendron, 21, who grew up
with Maille. “He always had a
great outlook on life. He was
always the life of the party.”
Maille was swimming at
a friend’s house in Tewskbury,
Mass., on Friday, Aug.
8, when he dove in. He misjudged
the depth of the pool
and broke his neck.
“We pulled him out of
the pool, once we knew
something was wrong,” said
Maille’s longtime friend,
Brian Stanton, 22, and his
friends performed CPR until
the ambulance arrived.
Stanton and several other
of Maille’s friends and family
stayed by his hospital bed until
his death.
“The doctors told us he
may be able to hear us, so I
just spent the time in there
with him, talking to him and
telling him how strong he
was,” Stanton said.
Audrey Sousa, 21, was
Maille’s high school sweetheart
and went to two proms
with him. The couple dated
for three years before heading
off to separate schools,
Sousa going to Rivier College
in Nashua.
“He loved to dance. He
would dance anywhere,” Sousa
said, recalling their senior
prom. “He had got his uncle’s
Mustang, and he was so excited
and so proud to drive this
thing. The license plate said
‘giddy up,’” she remembered.
The two remained close
friends after separating, Sousa
said. She last saw Maille
on July 30, when she went
to his house to watch “Stomp
the Yard,” a movie about
street dancing.
“He made me watch it even
though he quoted everything in
the movie,” Sousa said, laughing.
Sousa said Maille excelled in
football, but also in baseball, basketball
and academics.
“He could just see things happening
that no one else could
pick up on, and just read plays,”
Sousa said.
Will Demers, 21, met Maille
at the age or 6 or 7, he said, when
Demers first moved to Pelham.
Demers described Maille has
being the “strong personality”
that brought Demers out of his
shyness.
“The best way to put it was
that he always represented to me
what it meant to really live life to
the fullest, and he had a strong
impact on me,” Demers said. “He
was the guy who took charge. I
was always really shy, and he really
made me be me.”
Demers, who also stayed by
Maille’s side in the hospital, said
he spent a lot of time telling his
friend how much he’d affected
his own life.
“Especially when it started
to drag out a few days, I tried to
tell him not to fight anymore. By
the end, it was just time for him
to go, and we were just trying to
make him understand that it was
OK,” Demers said.
Stanton and others recalled
a football game in their senior
year in which Robby made a
play characteristic of his attitude toward life.
Maille got the ball and ran
40 yards for a touchdown. The
touchdown didn’t count because
the game officials called a holding
penalty.
“Robby just turns to the coach
and turns to the rest of (the team)
and said, ‘give me the ball and
run the same play,’” said Stanton,
the team’s wide receiver.
Powers, the football coach at
the time, remembers that play
vividly. “He just ran over to the
sidelines and said ‘call it again,
call it again,’” Powers said.
When he got the ball this
time, he again ran for a 40-yard
touchdown and got it that time.
“He was a person that if he
told you he was going to do something,
he did it,” Stanton said.
Powers said Maille’s confidence
and upbeat personality
spread to the rest of the team in
that year in particular, in which
they lost the first two games before
winning eight in a row, losing
in a hard-fought championship
game.
“He had that intensity and he
had the ability to go out on the
field and do things like that,”
Powers said.
Demers said Maille wouldn’t
want his friends to be sad about
his death, but would want them
to get the most out of life.
“He wouldn’t want people
moping around. He’d want people
to enjoy the time they have,”
Demers said. “I just wanted to
make sure he knew how much I
really looked up to him, and the
impact he’s had on me is going to
last forever.”