BY
MATT SCHOOLEY
Many Bow residents
watched the news
footage of the damage
Hurricane Katrina inflicted
on New Orleans
in late summer
2005.
Adam Cantor
lived it.
The recently
graduated Bow
High School
senior and his
family were living in New Orleans
when the hurricane struck, and
when their home was severely
damaged, they moved to New
Hampshire to start over.
The Cantor family received
a call the morning of the storm,
warning of its severity and urging
them to leave their uptown
New Orleans home. So the family
packed three days of clothing
and began heading toward Houston,
where they had friends. The
city had reached capacity and
the road was closed. The Cantors
drove to northern Louisiana,
only about 50 miles from
home.
After the storm, Cantor’s
family returned to see their
home destroyed, but for Adam it
wasn’t a reality until he returned
home a few weeks later.
“People can tell you things
and you can see them on the
news, but it didn’t hit home until
then,” said Cantor. “That sinking
feeling hit, and that was it.
My folks went back very soon
after, and I went back a little
later. They told me we couldn’t
live there anymore, but I hadn’t
believed them. That was a sad
day.”
The months following the
storm were frustrating for Cantor
as he attended three high
schools in one year, before finding
a home in Bow.
Coming into Bow High
School a few months into his
sophomore year seemed like a
daunting task for Cantor.
“It seemed really hard at first
to be accepted by people, but
really it didn’t take much for people
to notice me there,” he said.
“The start was hard, because
they knew each other and I was
an outsider they didn’t really
need. People were really quick
to become friends.”
One of the difficult tasks
Cantor was faced with was balancing
the new friends he met
in Bow with the friends he was
forced to leave in New Orleans.
“History and remembering
everything was huge for me. I
had a lot of trouble and spent
time trying not to forget things,”
Cantor said. “I would try to
remember all the names, places
and people. Slowly, as I made
new friends, I realized they
weren’t going away. They were
important to who I was.”
Cantor brought a bit of New
Orleans to Bow as he taught a
“Taste of New Orleans” cooking
class to go along with the theme
of his senior project.
Teaching the classes was a
way for Cantor to return to his
roots.
“New Orleans food is always
my comfort food. Some have
chocolate, I have jambalaya,” he
said.
Cantor said graduation day
was even more special for him,
considering the changes he was
forced to make.
“I do still feel like my friends
in New Orleans were all ripped
from me. It was another perspective
moment because I
came down and saw my friends’
graduation (in New Orleans),”
he said. “Then to graduate with
the new friends I had, I saw
how they were separate but all
equally important.”
This fall, Cantor will attend
Vanderbilt University in Nashville,
Tenn., and afterward he
hopes to continue traveling.
From the moment Cantor
and his family received a call
that a category-5 storm was
heading toward his home, he’s
had to learn to deal with whatever
was thrown at him.
“I’ve learned how important
it is to evolve your circumstances
and be prepared for new things,”
he said. “Things happen that are
beyond your control and you
have to be willing to roll with the
punches sometimes.”